{"id":3762,"date":"2021-04-27T11:33:57","date_gmt":"2021-04-27T09:33:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/passiongames.eu\/?p=3762"},"modified":"2022-06-27T20:05:59","modified_gmt":"2022-06-27T18:05:59","slug":"unustamatud-volbriooseiklused-koos-maagilise-vaarikas-mangu-ja-onneliku-suhte-volukunstiga","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/passiongames.eu\/en\/uncategorized\/unustamatud-volbriooseiklused-koos-maagilise-vaarikas-mangu-ja-onneliku-suhte-volukunstiga\/","title":{"rendered":"Unforgettable Walpurgis night adventures with the magical Spark in the Dark game and the sorcery of a happy relationship"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Ahead of the magical Walpurgis night, it is time to talk about hotly passionate topics and lift the shroud of secrecy on the sorcery of creating a happy relationship. Our blog guest this time is a woman whose entrepreneurial attitude and shining character have, as if by magic, led her to success in very different fields of life. Miina Kallikorm is a mother, sports enthusiast and entrepreneur, as well as the creator of the quickly trending Estonian erotic game Spark in the Dark.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n

In our newest blog post we talk to Miina about what makes this game so popular and find out about how playing with your partner can help raise the quality of your relationship. Very soon you will be able to try out Miina\u2019s secret knowledge at home, because the new exclusive version of Spark in the Dark will become available at BonBon stores on Monday, 3 May. Besides the game talk, we ask Miina about her business experiences and her happy stable relationship, as here at BonBon we believe that the success stories of all women should be heard and all feminine wisdom should be shared with the world!<\/p>\n\n

SPARK IN THE DARK HELPS SHOW YOUR TRUE DESIRES TO YOUR PARTNER\u00a0<\/h3>\n\n

First we ask Miina what the mysterious game is all about and how the idea for it came to be. \u201cThe name of the game is actually personal,\u201d Miina reveals, as in her relationship, the word \u201cspark\u201d was used as a code word to hint at sex in front of the children. \u201cIt sounded stylish and soft to me. Many of the sex games that can be found in erotic shops have quite unsavoury names. Spark in the Dark is acceptable to everyone.\u201d Besides the name, the contents of the game have also been inspired by Miina\u2019s own passionate experiences, which began with an e-mail that brought a lot of excitement to her relationship. \u201cOne time my husband had to be away from home on business for a few weeks. One night I received a surprising e-mail from him. Namely, my husband asked me to write down five sensual things that I desire most from him and which give me the most pleasure. Then I had to also note activities I would like to perform on him. A few days later a new e-mail came \u2013 this time with game instructions. When my husband came back home, the new game gave us a lot of joy for a long time and we were in awe of the realisation of how easy it is to make regular week nights memorable and incredibly passionate.\u201d\u00a0<\/p>\n\n

Miina\u2019s satisfying relationship and the newfound playfulness first began to pique the attention of her friends. In the end, curiosity around the game got so intense, she just had to share it with others. \u201cAfter deciding that yes, now\u2019s the time to share this game that has brought so much joy and freshness into our life, the whole process developed very quickly. There were only five months between the e-mail from my husband and holding the Spark in the Dark game box in my hands, actually.\u201d<\/p>\n\n

MORE ON THIS INTERESTING GAME<\/h3>\n\n

Pictured: The new exclusive version of Raspberry (Spark in the Dark- English version)<\/em><\/p>\n\n

The game begins with a simple game of War. In the first round, the winner gets to pick one action card: for women, these are pink, and for men, black. Having picked the card, you have to read it out and set the stopwatch that comes with the game to 45 seconds, during which you can enjoy the activity you just heard. After that, a new round of War begins and the winner picks another activity card. The magic of the game is in the 45 second limits on all activities. \u201cBy the end you feel so fired up you don\u2019t know what you might do!\u201d Miina emphasises that it\u2019s crucial to stick to this time limit to get the most pleasure. \u201cThe game can last hours and make you feel like you\u2019re floating in some blissful paradise, under the spell of your lover and their euphoric touch.\u201d With the game box set, you also get a deck of cards with unique images that symbolise various sexual positions. In case you don\u2019t have the time for hours of luxuriating, you can simply explore the different positions on the cards.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n

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Pictured: The new exclusive version<\/em><\/p>\n\n

The exclusive game version that will soon be available at BonBon stores will also come with foreplay cards and eye masks. \u201cSome couples need softer cards to warm up, others don\u2019t. That way you can customise the game according to your needs and play it in many different ways. Especially important are the fantasy cards, on which you can write your own favourite activities. It\u2019s a very safe way to hint to your partner what you really like in bed. We don\u2019t always dare to say these things out loud, but once you\u2019ve written your desire on a fantasy card, you can be sure that at some point, your partner will pull this card anyway. In my own relationship, too, this game has clearly brought out what my husband and I really enjoy. Enough humping in bed with no aim, that\u2019s not pleasurable to anyone,\u201d Miina laughs. The instructions also tell you to let your feelings fly and express all of your desires openly. The nearing magical Walpurgis night is an excellent time to experiment with your fantasies!<\/p>\n\n

\u00a0\u201cEnough humping in bed with no aim, that\u2019s not pleasurable to anyone!\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n

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Pildil: Vaarikas m\u00e4ngu uue eksklusiivse versiooni fantaasiakaardid<\/em><\/p>\n\n

SUCCESS DEPENDS ON ATTITUDE, NOT OTHERS\u2019 APPROVAL<\/h3>\n\n

The game first hit the shops at the beginning of this year and became very popular very quickly thanks to its versatile and passionate content. Yet Miina\u2019s successful undertakings don\u2019t end with this game. She loves a challenge and has tried her hand at all kinds of different careers. \u201cTo me, success is not measured by the amount of money in my bank account. Your financial situation is an important indicator in life, but to me, real success comes from continuous development and accepting new challenges. I\u2019ve noticed that a lot of people avoid trying new things. They prefer safe comforts and clear options. I myself am a huge experimenter. I don\u2019t like that kind of thinking \u2013 oh, I\u2019ve never tried this before, so I won\u2019t do it. That\u2019s exactly why you should do it \u2013 you\u2019ll gain experience! Small successes will encourage you to try new things more willingly in the future.\u201d Miina admits that creating a sex game also took a lot of courage from her, but she has definitely not had to regret it.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n

Another important measure of success for Miina is the ability to offer value to other people. \u201cYou shouldn\u2019t do anything just for the sake of it or for show \u2013 like oh look, I can do it \u2013 but you should think about what kind of positive change your actions can bring. A sex game isn\u2019t purely about sex, the aim is to bring closeness, playfulness, fun and quality time back into a relationship. That is my biggest motivation when working with PassionGames, but these values have been important to me long before creating Spark in the Dark. I have had very different careers in life, such as elderly care, running a children\u2019s camp, offering a cleaning service, and much more. Behind all those undertakings has been the desire to offer something to people. Something that I am good at and through which I can bring value to the world.\u201d<\/p>\n\n

\u201cYou shouldn\u2019t do anything just for the sake of it or for show \u2013 like oh look, I can do it \u2013 but you should think about what kind of positive change your actions can bring.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n

Miina finds that many women are held back by the success-inhibiting question of what others will think of their decisions and career choices. \u201cIf I had lived with such a mindset, most things would have probably gone undone. I\u2019ve always prescribed to the idea that if my gut feeling is right and I feel good, then I just have to do it! What my decisions will bring afterwards \u2013 well, I\u2019ll deal with that later,\u201d Miina laughs. She began her first company when one of her kids was 2 years old and the other only 3 months old. \u201cI held my kids in my arms and asked myself what I really wanted to do. My time to stay at home with the kids was over and I understood that from then on, I wanted to be the master of my own time. I didn\u2019t want my income to be dependent solely on how many hours I work each day. I wanted my income to be in correlation with the value of my work. Bringing the sex game to life was my first experience in creating a company. I have to admit that the question also went through my head \u2013 what will others think? But then I just decided, Miina \u2013 you\u2019ve lived your whole life listening to yourself, why doubt now? Today I am super grateful that I didn\u2019t let fear stop me from creating Spark in the Dark.\u201d A helpful tip that helped Miina evaluate the value of her work was analysing the problems that arose. \u201cIf you do something with your heart, things will move easily. Yet if you have to force everything too much, you should ask yourself if you\u2019re on the right path.\u201d<\/p>\n\n

\u201cIf you do something with your heart, things will move easily. Yet if you have to force everything too much, you should ask yourself if you\u2019re on the right path.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n

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Miina dreams big in a bright yellow Cece\u00a0supported bra<\/a>\u00a0and tangas<\/em><\/p>\n\n

THE KEY TO A HAPPY RELATIONSHIP IS OPEN COMMUNICATION<\/h3>\n\n

Miina and her husband have not stopped playing the game and are continually updating it. Miina believes that many more special versions of Spark in the Dark will hit the shelves in the future. \u201cTo make a sex game with your husband \u2013 it makes for very interesting work meetings. When the game had just been released, we went to the spa for the weekend to try out in its new form. We had some paper and a pencil on the side at the same time, so we could take notes. At some point I was very mad and looking for the developer\u2019s address as a joke so I could file a complaint,\u201d Miina chuckles when thinking back to the creative process of the game. \u201cIn the new exclusive version of the game we have relied on our own as well as the clients\u2019 experiences to bring in some updates. The game is also even more compact now; in its little silk bag you can discreetly take it with you anywhere.\u201d\u00a0<\/p>\n\n

\u201cIn order to make the game even more enjoyable, we have had to talk a lot about sex and feelings with my husband. This has made us much closer. Sexual closeness is definitely important, but only after you can tell your partner about all of your desires and feelings without shame and embarrassment can sex become something completely different and more special. It\u2019s a shame that many couples don\u2019t ever open up to each other, despite being together for a long time.\u201d Miina adds that physical intimacy is an open topic in her home, also when it comes to talking to the kids. \u201cOf course we don\u2019t tell them everything, but I believe that a healthy upbringing should not make sex a taboo topic. My husband and I also organise children\u2019s camps and working with kids is a very important part of my life. When publishing Spark in the Dark, my biggest concern was the opinion of parents. I wondered if our camps would end now. But it turned out that many of the parents whose children come to our camps actually ordered the game and loved it. That was a huge relief for me! We joked that we could sell package deals now \u2013 the camp for kids and the game for parents. Everyone\u2019s a winner.\u201d<\/p>\n\n

\u201cSexual closeness is definitely important, but only after you can tell your partner about all of your desires and feelings without shame and embarrassment can sex become something completely different and more special.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n

Parenting can subtly hide the flame of passion necessary for a happy relationship. Miina is sure that for a happy family life, it\u2019s not only important to find time for your kids, but also for your partner and most importantly yourself. \u201cA previous long-term relationship of mine ended because we stopped finding time for each other. Now I know how important it is to plan time mindfully so you still have some time alone with your partner, especially if you have kids. And talking of course! You have to find the time to talk about problems as soon as they arise, not postpone the conversation and hide your feelings within.\u201d According to Miina, her current relationship has also hit rough patches, but instead of ignoring problems, they have always searched for solutions. \u201cAt one point we went to family therapy, where we understood how many things we had left unspoken because we hadn\u2019t dared to tell each other. Even small, everyday things. And of course the other half of the issue \u2013 once your partner does open up, you have to know how to listen. Women often don\u2019t even expect their husbands to give them advice or tell them anything groundbreaking. It also helps to just put an arm around her and be there for your wife. You don\u2019t need to do more than be properly present in that moment when either of you is having a hard time.\u201d\u00a0<\/p>\n\n

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Miina shines in the Pamela royal blue\u00a0long-sleeved bodysuit<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n\n

TIME INVESTED IN YOURSELF ENRICHES YOUR LIFE\u00a0<\/h3>\n\n

Besides therapy, Miina recommends exploring your sexuality through workshops. \u201cSometimes women don\u2019t even know what they like. If you\u2019re clueless yourself, it\u2019s very hard to communicate your wishes to your partner. About 5-6 years ago I took part in Epp K\u00e4rsin\u2019s workshops and the knowledge I got from there put me at the beginning of a very important path. This is knowledge that isn\u2019t taught anywhere else. That\u2019s why I believe it\u2019s never too late to add to your knowledge through workshops. I remember also going to a Lingam massage training session. That took our relationship to a completely new level! My husband was so thrilled he went to learn Yoni massage right away.\u201d Miina\u2019s long-term relationship has taught her that developing a relationship and sexual exploration have no limits. There is only constant practice and new experiences.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n

\u201cThese days there are so many options with which to freshen up a relationship. Don\u2019t be afraid to try different sex toys or hot wax, for example. You can order everything online discreetly. I remember the first time I went to an erotic shop, it was cold and unwelcoming and that place definitely didn\u2019t make me feel sexy. But times have changed and besides online stores, there are now many cool physical sex shops where the staff communicate openly and in friendly way and that are truly enjoyable to visit. That way you can open up and lose the awkwardness. I recommend starting by even just buying sexy lingerie that you wouldn\u2019t try on otherwise. I really want to stress to women not to be afraid to experiment and discover new things. And saying \u201coh I don\u2019t have the time\u201d... If you can\u2019t find time for yourself, then what can you find it for at all? Don\u2019t hide behind that excuse, you have to set your priorities straight and plan your time accordingly.\u201d A wide array of sex toys and other bedroom toys can be found in our shops in the \u00dclemiste and Nautica shopping centres. We sell things like vibrators, pleasure eggs, ticklers, massage oils and Miina\u2019s favourite lingam massage sets.<\/p>\n\n

\u201cDeveloping a relationship and sexual exploration have no limits. There is only constant practice and new experiences.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n

Besides overcoming yourself mentally, Miina also emphasises attention to your physical health, especially after having kids. Miina knows that lifestyle and daily habits affect our wellbeing a lot, and that also affects the mood of the family. \u201cBesides your daily tasks, you shouldn\u2019t forget the importance of physical activity, eating and sleep. It\u2019s natural that becoming a mother changes your weight and body. But it\u2019s important that you feel at ease and happy when looking in the mirror. I gained 26 kilograms with my first child, but I can honestly say that at that time, I really liked myself. Many are not happy with their appearance, but don\u2019t do anything to change it, either. Unfortunately you can\u2019t live a confident and happy life like that. I fully believe that there is no point in wasting time on whining and constantly telling yourself everything that\u2019s wrong and bad without changing anything in your lifestyle at that. It\u2019s not always easy, but if you take care of yourself, motherhood or bodily changes won\u2019t rob you of your inner and outer sexiness. Sexiness is defined by how you feel in your body. How is your physical activity and mental health and who are the people you surround yourself with \u2013 do they inspire you or rather pull you down? All of these aspects have to be kept in mind constantly in order to not let your quality of life drop.\u201d\u00a0<\/p>\n\n

\u201cSexiness is defined by how you feel in your body. How is your physical activity and mental health and who are the people you surround yourself with?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n

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Miina feels most sexy in a Cece\u00a0supported bra<\/a>\u00a0and tangas<\/em><\/p>\n\n

ON THE DOORSTEP OF A NEW RELATIONSHIP: DON\u2019T BE AFRAID TO EXPERIMENT!<\/h3>\n\n

Of course, uncertainties and relationship problems don\u2019t only bother couples who have been together for a while or just had a baby \u2013 they can also daunt new relationships. \u201cFor new couples, I want to stress not to hurry. Getting to know each other is an exciting time and you should enjoy it. I can tell from experience that the intimate life that my husband and I had at the beginning of our relationship was definitely not what we have today. A relationship is always changing. The sparks and trembles of the beginning create the basis for future development. For that development to bring you closer to each other it is important to express your desires and needs as early as possible. I recommend new couples start Spark in the Dark precisely from the fantasy cards, writing down your favourite activities and trying out your partner\u2019s ones. And women \u2014 don\u2019t be afraid to take initiative when it comes to physical contact! You have exactly the same right to be the igniting power and dominate in bed as the man. And usually this is a positive surprise for the man, too.\u201d\u00a0<\/p>\n\n

Besides the fantasy cards, Miina recommends experimenting with nudity and lingerie, to make the game even more interesting. \u201cI like starting the game in lingerie. It adds mystery and comfort, you don\u2019t have to be naked right away. Of course you can do it the other way around, the experiences will just be different. More than anything else I love open lingerie, where the sexy cuts already get me ready me for special experiences. My husband also loves open cuts. His eyes are like he\u2019s bewitched every time! You shouldn\u2019t underestimate the power of lingerie in creating a sexy feeling. When I wear nice lingerie, even if I cover it with clothes, I still feel my back straighten up and my mood lift noticeably. But when I wear some old, ragged underwear, I definitely don\u2019t get that feeling. Sexy lingerie is modern witchcraft and the best spell for confidence! With BonBon it\u2019s easy \u2013 whatever you choose will be comfortable and pretty. The materials are high quality, you won\u2019t need to adjust or scratch anything. Beauty in harmony with comfort. And if a woman feels comfortable in her body, her partner will also notice it. Confidence is an incredibly charming characteristic!\u201d<\/p>\n\n

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Pictured: The new exclusive game version available at BonBon Lingerie stores from 3 May.<\/em><\/p>\n\n

The BonBon team wishes all the best to Miina and lots of success in her worthwhile endeavours!<\/em>!<\/p>\n\n

The new exclusive game will hit BonBon Lingerie\u2019s shelves very soon.<\/em>2021.<\/p>\n\n

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Pictured: The new exclusive game version available at BonBon Lingerie stores from 3 May.<\/em><\/p>\n\n

Source: www.bonbonlingerie<\/a><\/p>\n\n

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Maagilise volbrip\u00e4eva eel on aeg r\u00e4\u00e4kida palavalt kirglikel teemadel ja kergitada saladuseloori \u00f5nneliku suhte v\u00f5lukunsti kohta. Meie seekordne blogik\u00fclaline on naine, kes oma ettev\u00f5tliku suhtumise ja s\u00e4rava isikup\u00e4raga on justkui v\u00f5luv\u00e4el saavutanud edu v\u00e4ga erinevates eluvaldkondades. Miina Kallikorm on ema, spordientusiast ja ettev\u00f5tja, ning \u00fchtlasi Eestis kiiresti poolehoiu v\u00f5itnud erootikam\u00e4ngu Vaarikas looja.\u00a0 V\u00e4rskes blogis r\u00e4\u00e4gime […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3995,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"inline_featured_image":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_uf_show_specific_survey":0,"_uf_disable_surveys":false,"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"default","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"default","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"default","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3762","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/passiongames.eu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3762","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/passiongames.eu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/passiongames.eu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/passiongames.eu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/passiongames.eu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3762"}],"version-history":[{"count":17,"href":"https:\/\/passiongames.eu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3762\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5766,"href":"https:\/\/passiongames.eu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3762\/revisions\/5766"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/passiongames.eu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3995"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/passiongames.eu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3762"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/passiongames.eu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3762"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/passiongames.eu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3762"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}